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What about my Flaws?

My flaws is what makes me stand out. 

It is part of my being and yours too. They help me realize what I can do to better my way of living. As a married woman, I focus more on communicating with my spouse about our flaws, instead of dwelling, fighting and aurguing about the negative part. 

According to Google, Flaws is considered an imprefection. To be honests, flaws is confirmation for us because the only one I know that’s perfect is God. Don’t beat yourself or others about flaws. Work it out. Get to know each other differences in order to work out the kinks. Who said life, marriage, business or any of that would be peaches and cream?

Accept who you are. Be slow to speak and quick to listen. God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason. Get to the root of your flaw. Where did it come from? Is it a bad habit? Can you change it or is it a natural flaw? Either way, respect, accept and love who you are. Prayer, Communication, Compromise and Understanding is the answer to relationships who are having issues working on their flaws. 

Thank God for bringing someone in my life where we both accept each other flaws. We have the courage to change the things we can and pray for wisdom to accept and know what we can’t change. 

Catrina Latrice Williams-Hoolasie

Being in a simple Relationship is different from Marriage

Relationships are over-rated in the 21st century. 

When a couple choose to get together, they are two separate beings in the spiritual and physical realm. They must buy their own cars, homes, open bank accounts separate, apply for credit separately and more. God don’t see a bond when two people date. They can live together for years, pray and do everything together. Two people that agree to connect is preparing to cleave together as one physically, mentally, sexually, spiritually and financially in God kingdom. There is not much God can do for two people together who has not tied the knot in his presence. They are seen as separate individuals guided by God.

Two people who come together as one can carry out God’s will on earth faster. According to Genesis 2:24, that is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. God can bless a married couple together as one. 

Marriage is a commitment ritual that is performed by a person of God who has been ordained to bond spiritual beings together in Gods Kingdom. Without the blessings of God, a couple will experience limitations.  Limitations such as getting invited to Luxurious Resorts that offer promotions for married couples to explore lovely condos and perks. Some timeshare companies need people to be married with a minimum income amount. There must be relaxation and freedom throughout life. There are tax limitations for individuals, but married couples that file jointly get more tax benefits.

Married couples get more blessings from God. God guides them. They learn how to be slow to speak and quick to listen. They understand how to show appreciation through God which in return will give and receive appreciation from their spouse. Allowing God to guide a married couple will show them how to respect and compromise with one another. When a person is single, they act out on selfish desires because they are by themselves. That is why people are encouraged to get married after a certain timeframe so they learn how to help others.

It is no longer about you when you marry someone in the kingdom of Gods field because you make a commitment for better or for worse, to go through the up ands down, life and death. Avoid adultery, lying, cheating, stealing, pride, selfish desires, sexual immortality and other negative forces. If one commit sin against God, it punishes both because both people became one. Sin interrupts the spiritual connection with God. If a husband cheat on his wife, by default what he does, comes back to him. It will affect his wife physically, spiritually and mentally in negative way. 

If a wife receives flowers from her husbands, just because, God will see the love energy in the atmosphere and shower more blessings for both. Buying flowers for a woman creates a chemical reaction for her husband. Spiritually it lights more flame to the fire and passion they have for one another.  Mentally, the words on the card and beauty of the flowers goes into the subconscious mind and stores great memories. Therefore, marriage is better than just being in a simple relationship.