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3 Dating Tips for Men to KEEP a Successful Woman.

Where are all my Single, Successful ladies looking for a good man? How about those gentlemen looking for a good woman? It’s funny how people can want something so bad but when they get it, they end up losing it. I have seen it many times where men would settle for less when a good woman was right in front of them. Of course, some women have done good guys wrong and vice versa.

god relatAt the same time, those good men would make the wrong decision on why they choose to deal with a specific girl. Meaning she showed him gold digging ways, but he was blinded by her body. It happens all the time. That’s just one example.

The trust and love have been stripped from many people in today’s world. I was one of them. Most of the time it is from past hurt. However, it is time for a paradigm shift for someone reading this. I believe more love is about to manifest in the lives of successful, single women.

womenI’m speaking up for my friends who I know are some great successful women. They are waiting on a great man to sweep them up off their feet. They want him to be a keeper, not a quitter. So I’m really talking to those who don’t follow the doctrine that tells them to disrespect women and abandon their children.

It is time to love more, get closer to God and live the life we were destined. We must tear down walls of fear and distrust in order to heal the heart with love. My life has never been the same since I learned how to let go and let God. Before I was married, men used to tell me that I intimidated them because of my success.

Dating Tip #1:

Do not allow a woman’s success to put fear in your heart. Focus on your attraction for her. Get to know her for who she is and not just her looks or material things. Find out her likes and dislikes, hobbies, favorite food, etc. Learn more about what she does for a living that makes her successful. Show interest in her so that she can return the same energy.

Don’t open any doors if you won’t continue doing it in the future.

Dating Tip #2:

Don’t do something that you will not continue to do after 90 days getting to know each other. Men are definitely from Mars because they get wrapped up in thinking it’s the big things that count.

One thing I know as a woman is that we are emotional creatures. That means, we can’t be getting all this big acts, presents and great treatment in the beginning of the relationship and then it stops. Grow your expression of love over time.

Dating Tip #3

Be Yourself. It doesn’t matter if you are a country boy or a high-profile city guy, there is someone out there for everyone. If you are someone who has a funny laugh, then let her hear your laugh from the beginning. One person’s trash can be next individual treasure.

There are plenty more things that men can do to keep a successful woman. Yes, successful women have a list of things but a true woman understands that everyone has flaws.

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What about my Flaws?

My flaws is what makes me stand out. 

It is part of my being and yours too. They help me realize what I can do to better my way of living. As a married woman, I focus more on communicating with my spouse about our flaws, instead of dwelling, fighting and aurguing about the negative part. 

According to Google, Flaws is considered an imprefection. To be honests, flaws is confirmation for us because the only one I know that’s perfect is God. Don’t beat yourself or others about flaws. Work it out. Get to know each other differences in order to work out the kinks. Who said life, marriage, business or any of that would be peaches and cream?

Accept who you are. Be slow to speak and quick to listen. God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason. Get to the root of your flaw. Where did it come from? Is it a bad habit? Can you change it or is it a natural flaw? Either way, respect, accept and love who you are. Prayer, Communication, Compromise and Understanding is the answer to relationships who are having issues working on their flaws. 

Thank God for bringing someone in my life where we both accept each other flaws. We have the courage to change the things we can and pray for wisdom to accept and know what we can’t change. 

Catrina Latrice Williams-Hoolasie

Being in a simple Relationship is different from Marriage

Relationships are over-rated in the 21st century. 

When a couple choose to get together, they are two separate beings in the spiritual and physical realm. They must buy their own cars, homes, open bank accounts separate, apply for credit separately and more. God don’t see a bond when two people date. They can live together for years, pray and do everything together. Two people that agree to connect is preparing to cleave together as one physically, mentally, sexually, spiritually and financially in God kingdom. There is not much God can do for two people together who has not tied the knot in his presence. They are seen as separate individuals guided by God.

Two people who come together as one can carry out God’s will on earth faster. According to Genesis 2:24, that is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. God can bless a married couple together as one. 

Marriage is a commitment ritual that is performed by a person of God who has been ordained to bond spiritual beings together in Gods Kingdom. Without the blessings of God, a couple will experience limitations.  Limitations such as getting invited to Luxurious Resorts that offer promotions for married couples to explore lovely condos and perks. Some timeshare companies need people to be married with a minimum income amount. There must be relaxation and freedom throughout life. There are tax limitations for individuals, but married couples that file jointly get more tax benefits.

Married couples get more blessings from God. God guides them. They learn how to be slow to speak and quick to listen. They understand how to show appreciation through God which in return will give and receive appreciation from their spouse. Allowing God to guide a married couple will show them how to respect and compromise with one another. When a person is single, they act out on selfish desires because they are by themselves. That is why people are encouraged to get married after a certain timeframe so they learn how to help others.

It is no longer about you when you marry someone in the kingdom of Gods field because you make a commitment for better or for worse, to go through the up ands down, life and death. Avoid adultery, lying, cheating, stealing, pride, selfish desires, sexual immortality and other negative forces. If one commit sin against God, it punishes both because both people became one. Sin interrupts the spiritual connection with God. If a husband cheat on his wife, by default what he does, comes back to him. It will affect his wife physically, spiritually and mentally in negative way. 

If a wife receives flowers from her husbands, just because, God will see the love energy in the atmosphere and shower more blessings for both. Buying flowers for a woman creates a chemical reaction for her husband. Spiritually it lights more flame to the fire and passion they have for one another.  Mentally, the words on the card and beauty of the flowers goes into the subconscious mind and stores great memories. Therefore, marriage is better than just being in a simple relationship.